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You want
to know how to attract a woman?
Here are
the best ways to handle physical contact
By Tiffany Taylor!
Touching/physical
contact is an absolutely vital component of
seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl
without first establishing a basic level of
mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in
for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with
her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy
amount of touching that works both ways: she
flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you
encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a
little closer – whatever form the physical
contact takes, it has to be present for you to
achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And
that right there is where the problem for many
men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling
when it comes to tactility and physical
closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how
can a guy develop mutual physical closeness
without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just “go
for it” and consequently end up making the girl
feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated
because of their rushed attempt at physical
closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to
risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind
of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually
sends out the wrong message, that the guy is
either not interested in the girl, or that he’s
simply too timid to show it, neither of which
are attractive scenarios in the mind of a
good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s
the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you
just need to follow a few basic rules or
procedures, all of which conform to the personal
boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t
appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same
time clearly indicate that you’re a confident
guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls
and even showing it through casual, relaxed
physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think
that touching a girl in any way when they first
meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s
simply not true. To form a positive, strong
first impression and create an immediate bond
with a girl when you first introduce yourself or
get talking, casually and gently touch the
outside of her right arm while at the same time
verbally expressing something. The outside of a
woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for
the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but
at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that
you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy.
Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice
the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve
started a conversation with a girl, or when you
randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you
really like the look of, it’s important to keep
up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain
the bond and rapport you’ve already created and
also helps build it further, into mutually felt
sexual attraction. You can use something called
‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply,
stealth tactility involves making physical
contact with the girl in a disguised way. For
example, if she wants to go to the bar or
bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use
stealth tactility by placing your hand on her
shoulder, drawing her in a little closer,
swivelling both of your bodies round until you
face in the right direction, then point past
other people or obstacles with your other hand
to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always
try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish
your conversation with a girl. For example,
after swapping numbers or arranging to meet
again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and
a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been
done once something’s been arranged for a later
date, but making physical contact before you
part with a girl is always a great way of
ensuring she remembers you and really cannot
wait to see you again.
Tiffany Taylor is
the female author of a special guide that
reveals for the first time what goes on the
minds of women AND how men can use special
psychological and social techniques to attract
and seduce them – regardless of their looks,
bank balance or the car they drive.
Attract And Seduce Women Today
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